How to Propose Without an Engagement Ring (And Still Get a Yes!) (2024)

Others will have partners who are on the entirely opposite end of the spectrum—those with absolutely no desire for a ring, or a diamond, for that matter. Perhaps, in these situations, it’s best to eliminate an engagement ring altogether, at least, for the time being.

But proposing empty-handed may not sit quite right with those who appreciate the finer things in life. Our solution? Opt for another piece of proposal jewelry to pop the question with, an alternative engagement ring, if you will. Because while of course, you don’t need a fancy diamond to propose with—it’s the person (not the piece) after all—that’s the most important part of any proposal, having a sparkly substitute certainly wouldn't hurt.

Below, is our guide to the best proposal jewelry, alternative engagement rings, and other jewelry gifts–from thoughtful and symbolic pieces that serve as placeholders for the real deal, to splurge-worthy items that are easily justified by the significance of such a momentous and joyous occasion.

Let the Jewelry Do the Talking

For those who aren’t great at expressing their feelings or are worried they might get tongue-tied when the time comes, consider proposing with a piece of jewelry that expresses your love or asks the question for you. From Marie Lichtenberg’s over-the-top take on an engagement ring complete with a hidden diamond, a bold question mark, and the phrase “would you marry me” engraved on the inside, to options that ask a bit more subtly, like Alex Monroe’s question mark necklace, dotted with a single diamond, today, many jewelry designers are getting creative and delivering fun, fresh ways to propose.

Subtle Symbols of Love

Hearts and flowers are the obvious choice here, but locks and knots, which often symbolize marriage, are also sweet ways to mark this new chapter of your relationship. Want something more creative or a bit inconspicuous? Look to Robinson Pelham’s cleverly disguised Eye Die 4 U ring or Garland Collection’s matchstick necklace for the person who sets your soul on fire.

When Words Fail, Use Numbers

A custom piece always shows extra thought and attention to detail. Try personalizing an item of jewelry with a special date that marks a significant day in your relationship, or go with 143, the numerical equivalent of I love you.

A Non-Traditional Diamond Ring

Choose a funky diamond ring for a partner who's looking for maximum sparkle and uniqueness.

Lucky Colors

Some people still want to rock a ring but are looking for something a bit more colorful than the traditional white diamond. Consider choosing a co*cktail ring with a colored stone, similar to Princess Diana’s—and now Kate Middleton’s—iconic sapphire engagement ring.

Wear Your Heart on Your Sleeve

For those who may deem an engagement ring a bit too flashy or impractical, contemplate proposing with an everyday staple, like a watch.